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Don Juan
I tried to stop but this morning (3 days later) had a wet dream. Could someone please advise me on how to stop these?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Stop masturbating
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
The whole abstaining thing only works for guys with a low sex drive, because it takes them longer to recharge to full force.
Work on your testosterone levels (diet, exercise, zinc, stress, sleep) and the whole problem of low drive, motivation and energy is gone.
Work on your testosterone levels (diet, exercise, zinc, stress, sleep) and the whole problem of low drive, motivation and energy is gone.
Forty0ztoFreedom
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Not doing it seems to increase my drive. I like the "Life Force" analogy. Thats kind of what it feels like.
Being 17 my sex drive seems to get in the way of me concentrating. "If X-Y=2 then damn that's some fine ass. Dammit concentrate. Boobies." Even once a say doesn't seem to lower my drive and leave my feeling sluggish etc.
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Don Juan
San Jose California said:
Thank you, so far you've been right.
But now I'm super horny all the time.
Just looking at a girl is enough to get me up now and it's gotten to the point where I have to intentionally not think about her to avoid an embarrassing erection.
It's only been 3 days since I last ejaculated!
Other guys on here have said the feeling of power and control kicks in after about 14 days. I really want to experience that but I don't think it's going to work for me.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
I'm going to see how long I can go without masturbating.