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Don Juan
I tried to stop but this morning (3 days later) had a wet dream. Could someone please advise me on how to stop these?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Stop masturbating
- Thread starter War Against Betaism
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The whole abstaining thing only works for guys with a low sex drive, because it takes them longer to recharge to full force.
Work on your testosterone levels (diet, exercise, zinc, stress, sleep) and the whole problem of low drive, motivation and energy is gone.
Work on your testosterone levels (diet, exercise, zinc, stress, sleep) and the whole problem of low drive, motivation and energy is gone.
Forty0ztoFreedom
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Not doing it seems to increase my drive. I like the "Life Force" analogy. Thats kind of what it feels like.
Being 17 my sex drive seems to get in the way of me concentrating. "If X-Y=2 then damn that's some fine ass. Dammit concentrate. Boobies." Even once a say doesn't seem to lower my drive and leave my feeling sluggish etc.
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Don Juan
San Jose California said:
Thank you, so far you've been right.
But now I'm super horny all the time.
Just looking at a girl is enough to get me up now and it's gotten to the point where I have to intentionally not think about her to avoid an embarrassing erection.
It's only been 3 days since I last ejaculated!
Other guys on here have said the feeling of power and control kicks in after about 14 days. I really want to experience that but I don't think it's going to work for me.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
I'm going to see how long I can go without masturbating.