To be honest,I personally probably wouldn't have nexted her over this. Not saying I'd constantly be badgering her to go out,just that I wouldn't have thrown in the towel over one minor little incident. But that's just me.
Anyway,something struck me as kinda odd,what you said here......
She text me throughout the week, EVEN EARLIER THE DAY OF THE DATE
You said she texted you
THE DAY OF the date. Well what in the world did you two talk about?
Cause you said she didn't mention the date,and since you didn't confirm the date,I guess it's safe to assume you didn't mention the date either.
So if you two didn't talk about the date on
the day of the date,what did you two speak about? Cause if I'd been you,I would have been flirting with her,asking her what she was going to wear
FOR ME tonight,and telling her what all I had planned.
If you'd done that,then later on had texted her,telling her you were on your way...and
THEN she started talking about how she didn't know you two set a time and didn't talk about it,she'd look NUTS. I doubt all that would have happened,though.
And I ain’t confirming sh:; because I stand by my word. Am I off base?
Sir...it's admirable that you're a man of your word,but newflash: Everyone isn't like this.
You may stand by your word,but women stand by
their emotions. Which,as you already know,can change at the drop of a hat.
Who knows what was going on in her head,but if you're going to next 22 year olds just because everything didn't go smoothly without a hitch,you're gonna be going through a LOT of women.
Again.....I'm NOT SAYING to hound the girl for a date,only maybe not just give up just because a hiccup occurred. If it happened over and over again,fine.....but not the first time things didn't all go well.
Told her let me know when she’s available and deleted her number.
22, no kids.
I guess. I would have just tried to set up another date.
That's just how it is with younger women....you sometime have to go en extra mile to make something happen.