"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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KillShot

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Ok met this new girl at work, she told me from the start she was into me. Took her out 4 times, she told me she wants to take it super slow, which Im cool with. All 4 times great interactions, she tells me week 3 she isnt ready to date anyone.

Week 3, I meet another new girl briefly for like 2 hours, take her to lunch so she is girl number 2. Girl number 1 (the coworker) shows up to lunch, yeah it was at a company outing. Girl number 1 is cold to me, finally tells me next time I meet a new guy she wont bring him to a work event to show him off to coworkers. Wasn't my intention to show her off, and I didn't even introduce her to anyone at work.

Today via texting she gets mad at me and says we will never be anything, and she would appreciate it if I only called/texted about work events because we have nothing personal. So now I'm seeing this girl I work with who was super attracted to me tomorrow and Saturday. Do I A. Be a super prick to her who doesn't even acknowledge her presence or do I continue to act the way I have around her which is a complete gentlemen and respectful?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Just be respectful and professional, don't talk about anything other than work and be very careful of what you say.
 
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