"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sticky situation

KillShot

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Ok met this new girl at work, she told me from the start she was into me. Took her out 4 times, she told me she wants to take it super slow, which Im cool with. All 4 times great interactions, she tells me week 3 she isnt ready to date anyone.

Week 3, I meet another new girl briefly for like 2 hours, take her to lunch so she is girl number 2. Girl number 1 (the coworker) shows up to lunch, yeah it was at a company outing. Girl number 1 is cold to me, finally tells me next time I meet a new guy she wont bring him to a work event to show him off to coworkers. Wasn't my intention to show her off, and I didn't even introduce her to anyone at work.

Today via texting she gets mad at me and says we will never be anything, and she would appreciate it if I only called/texted about work events because we have nothing personal. So now I'm seeing this girl I work with who was super attracted to me tomorrow and Saturday. Do I A. Be a super prick to her who doesn't even acknowledge her presence or do I continue to act the way I have around her which is a complete gentlemen and respectful?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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3countriesPlan

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Just be respectful and professional, don't talk about anything other than work and be very careful of what you say.
 
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