"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Steve Harvey interview: The LONGEST dating requirements list!
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
MrWood
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zekko
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I love the contradicting ones - Must open doors for her and must pay on the first date (so she likes an old fashioned guy), but he can't get her flowers on the first date.
Then she wants a guy who is in shape, but he can't have six pack abs.
And can't be too skinny, but also can't be stronger than her. WTF?
And can't have a runner's physique, I don't know what her problem is there.
That woman comes across as seriously nuts.
MrWood
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making demands and wondering why she is single.
What can she offer but spitting out a kid and never loosing that weight? (look at her flabby upper arms!)
perfect for bigdave...
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
mrgoodstuff
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"Can't be stronger than her", WTF.... That sounds like a male saying his choice of female is she shouldn't be built better and shouldn't be stronger than him.
MatureDJ
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Sorry, but flabby arms like that means sub-5.
