"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Steve Harvey interview: The LONGEST dating requirements list!
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
MrWood
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zekko
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I love the contradicting ones - Must open doors for her and must pay on the first date (so she likes an old fashioned guy), but he can't get her flowers on the first date.
Then she wants a guy who is in shape, but he can't have six pack abs.
And can't be too skinny, but also can't be stronger than her. WTF?
And can't have a runner's physique, I don't know what her problem is there.
That woman comes across as seriously nuts.
MrWood
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making demands and wondering why she is single.
What can she offer but spitting out a kid and never loosing that weight? (look at her flabby upper arms!)
perfect for bigdave...
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
mrgoodstuff
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"Can't be stronger than her", WTF.... That sounds like a male saying his choice of female is she shouldn't be built better and shouldn't be stronger than him.
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Sorry, but flabby arms like that means sub-5.
