Alright, so if you didn't know I'm a softmore in highschool in hs and am 6'2 170 lbs and pretty muscular. But i am also Half asian half white. I don't fit the typical asian stereotype of all asians for ex: Strait black hair, short, skinny. But I continuously get messed with because i'm smart and make good grades. Because of this people assume that i'm only smart because i'm half asian or will ask me some stupid question like "can you say blank in chinese?" All of my friends are white for some reason and all the asian kids at school hate me; I don't understand why. Do the asian kids hate me because i'm not pure blood or something? And why do the white kids accept me?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Bible_Belt
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fwiw, race is a disappearing trait. In a few hundred years, we will all be light brown. You are just a little ahead of the rest of the world. Mixed race people typically get the best of each, very different gene pool. That's probably why you're tall and smart. The kids who dislike you are just jealous.
Maybe I'm not the best person to be giving advice at the moment, but that above quote from Bible Belt is spot on. People pay you out for being smart because they WISH that THEY were smart. They might sterotype it to you being asian, because of course in their mind it's not possible for you to just be better than them.
GaryUranga
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yeah this is liek the 2nd harry potter movie thats why asians hate you and whites make fun of you, youre doomed to living in lonelyness cause your blood isnt pure
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Why concerned about your race? You can't change it or anything, be proud of what you have and forget about their verbal sh*t.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Man ****'em I swear man life becomes a lot easier if you just let go and stop caring and living. Trust me man I foudn out the hard way the way people treat you is hardly ever come truly from how you look I don't care if your a midget. The way people treats you come from how you act. Find something to were you can fix it. Look I notice people would look past me because I was short and get made fun of cause of it. I notice that when I play basketball people wouldn't pass me the ball much blaming cause I was short till one day a guy smaller then me came to the gymn and was treated like the ****. That day i decided to call for the ball more and play as if I was the same height as everyone else and surely noted I got the ball just as much.
Not only that but I began to notice that all the people whom use to call me short and **** stopped because I began to become more confident in ways I can't explain.
Not only that but I began to notice that all the people whom use to call me short and **** stopped because I began to become more confident in ways I can't explain.