Alright, so if you didn't know I'm a softmore in highschool in hs and am 6'2 170 lbs and pretty muscular. But i am also Half asian half white. I don't fit the typical asian stereotype of all asians for ex: Strait black hair, short, skinny. But I continuously get messed with because i'm smart and make good grades. Because of this people assume that i'm only smart because i'm half asian or will ask me some stupid question like "can you say blank in chinese?" All of my friends are white for some reason and all the asian kids at school hate me; I don't understand why. Do the asian kids hate me because i'm not pure blood or something? And why do the white kids accept me?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Stereotypes
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
fwiw, race is a disappearing trait. In a few hundred years, we will all be light brown. You are just a little ahead of the rest of the world. Mixed race people typically get the best of each, very different gene pool. That's probably why you're tall and smart. The kids who dislike you are just jealous.
Maybe I'm not the best person to be giving advice at the moment, but that above quote from Bible Belt is spot on. People pay you out for being smart because they WISH that THEY were smart. They might sterotype it to you being asian, because of course in their mind it's not possible for you to just be better than them.
GaryUranga
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yeah this is liek the 2nd harry potter movie thats why asians hate you and whites make fun of you, youre doomed to living in lonelyness cause your blood isnt pure
antidonjuan
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Why concerned about your race? You can't change it or anything, be proud of what you have and forget about their verbal sh*t.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Man ****'em I swear man life becomes a lot easier if you just let go and stop caring and living. Trust me man I foudn out the hard way the way people treat you is hardly ever come truly from how you look I don't care if your a midget. The way people treats you come from how you act. Find something to were you can fix it. Look I notice people would look past me because I was short and get made fun of cause of it. I notice that when I play basketball people wouldn't pass me the ball much blaming cause I was short till one day a guy smaller then me came to the gymn and was treated like the ****. That day i decided to call for the ball more and play as if I was the same height as everyone else and surely noted I got the ball just as much.
Not only that but I began to notice that all the people whom use to call me short and **** stopped because I began to become more confident in ways I can't explain.
Not only that but I began to notice that all the people whom use to call me short and **** stopped because I began to become more confident in ways I can't explain.