Alright, so if you didn't know I'm a softmore in highschool in hs and am 6'2 170 lbs and pretty muscular. But i am also Half asian half white. I don't fit the typical asian stereotype of all asians for ex: Strait black hair, short, skinny. But I continuously get messed with because i'm smart and make good grades. Because of this people assume that i'm only smart because i'm half asian or will ask me some stupid question like "can you say blank in chinese?" All of my friends are white for some reason and all the asian kids at school hate me; I don't understand why. Do the asian kids hate me because i'm not pure blood or something? And why do the white kids accept me?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Bible_Belt
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fwiw, race is a disappearing trait. In a few hundred years, we will all be light brown. You are just a little ahead of the rest of the world. Mixed race people typically get the best of each, very different gene pool. That's probably why you're tall and smart. The kids who dislike you are just jealous.
Maybe I'm not the best person to be giving advice at the moment, but that above quote from Bible Belt is spot on. People pay you out for being smart because they WISH that THEY were smart. They might sterotype it to you being asian, because of course in their mind it's not possible for you to just be better than them.
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yeah this is liek the 2nd harry potter movie thats why asians hate you and whites make fun of you, youre doomed to living in lonelyness cause your blood isnt pure
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Why concerned about your race? You can't change it or anything, be proud of what you have and forget about their verbal sh*t.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Man ****'em I swear man life becomes a lot easier if you just let go and stop caring and living. Trust me man I foudn out the hard way the way people treat you is hardly ever come truly from how you look I don't care if your a midget. The way people treats you come from how you act. Find something to were you can fix it. Look I notice people would look past me because I was short and get made fun of cause of it. I notice that when I play basketball people wouldn't pass me the ball much blaming cause I was short till one day a guy smaller then me came to the gymn and was treated like the ****. That day i decided to call for the ball more and play as if I was the same height as everyone else and surely noted I got the ball just as much.
Not only that but I began to notice that all the people whom use to call me short and **** stopped because I began to become more confident in ways I can't explain.
Not only that but I began to notice that all the people whom use to call me short and **** stopped because I began to become more confident in ways I can't explain.