"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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STD's

Jblitz59

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STD's sound like a fairy tale but its an accident sometimes like pregnancy. when you don't know it happens like car accidents, you don't 'use a seatbelt' or any protection. only till you experience it do you learn. I tell ALL of you, i thought i had an STD it turned out to be a bad poison ivy case starting at my crotch. This was a wakeup call to me because life started spiraling downwards do not find yourself with STD's dont wait, ACT in the present.

If you have any wisdom you will use, take acts to PREVENT STD's not just to deal with them. Because most are not cureable. Wear condoms, pull-out technique is a major stupid move if used by itself. Even with condoms a couple STD's are transmitted like HPV by skin contact, make sure they dont have any warts, bumps, or anything odd on there private area and you'll be thanking me when you find the ***** who was gonna keep quiet just to have sex.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Desert Fox

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BongDuy said:
you can get an STD from a ******* right?
yes. This is why I get all the girls I sleep with tested before doing anything.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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