"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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STD's

Jblitz59

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STD's sound like a fairy tale but its an accident sometimes like pregnancy. when you don't know it happens like car accidents, you don't 'use a seatbelt' or any protection. only till you experience it do you learn. I tell ALL of you, i thought i had an STD it turned out to be a bad poison ivy case starting at my crotch. This was a wakeup call to me because life started spiraling downwards do not find yourself with STD's dont wait, ACT in the present.

If you have any wisdom you will use, take acts to PREVENT STD's not just to deal with them. Because most are not cureable. Wear condoms, pull-out technique is a major stupid move if used by itself. Even with condoms a couple STD's are transmitted like HPV by skin contact, make sure they dont have any warts, bumps, or anything odd on there private area and you'll be thanking me when you find the ***** who was gonna keep quiet just to have sex.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Desert Fox

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BongDuy said:
you can get an STD from a ******* right?
yes. This is why I get all the girls I sleep with tested before doing anything.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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