"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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STD's

Jblitz59

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STD's sound like a fairy tale but its an accident sometimes like pregnancy. when you don't know it happens like car accidents, you don't 'use a seatbelt' or any protection. only till you experience it do you learn. I tell ALL of you, i thought i had an STD it turned out to be a bad poison ivy case starting at my crotch. This was a wakeup call to me because life started spiraling downwards do not find yourself with STD's dont wait, ACT in the present.

If you have any wisdom you will use, take acts to PREVENT STD's not just to deal with them. Because most are not cureable. Wear condoms, pull-out technique is a major stupid move if used by itself. Even with condoms a couple STD's are transmitted like HPV by skin contact, make sure they dont have any warts, bumps, or anything odd on there private area and you'll be thanking me when you find the ***** who was gonna keep quiet just to have sex.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Desert Fox

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BongDuy said:
you can get an STD from a ******* right?
yes. This is why I get all the girls I sleep with tested before doing anything.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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