"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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STDS, *******s, n condoms

mtllcanpssy

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Alright so i plan on getting some from a girl this weekend. Anyway i thought i was sure about this but now im not, can i get stds from her going down on me. Id appreciate yalls knowledge. And also, i tried out a trojan extended pleasure condom (which was to make me last longer with desensitizing stuff) n it didnt make me feel any different than as if i as without it. Long story short, i came pretty soon. Maybe i put it on the wrong side but i flipped it over a couple times to check if my **** was on the wrong side, lol, but it made no difference. Just wondering if ya'll have any experience with these condoms or any advice for me. I kno about the durex performaxs so maybe ill try go buy some of those n try em out. Nybody here got experience wth those ones? Thanks for all ya'lls advice.....peace
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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first of all yes u can get stds from oral like herpies for one bc if she gave head to a guy with herp. then she now has it in her mouth(not always but u know..also u can sometimes tell bc they get outbreaks like a bunch of coldsores...although some girls have coldsores that have nuthing to do with stds...)second of all if u used the comdon and then went and turned it inside out it does u no good.....
 

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Originally posted by kave
first of all yes u can get stds from oral like herpies for one bc if she gave head to a guy with herp. then she now has it in her mouth(not always but u know..also u can sometimes tell bc they get outbreaks like a bunch of coldsores...although some girls have coldsores that have nuthing to do with stds...)second of all if u used the comdon and then went and turned it inside out it does u no good.....
Oral herpes and genital herpes are 2 different things that DON'T mix. Therefore, let me inform you that 80% of the world's population has oral herpes and you probably have it if you've ever had a cold. No, there is no risk if she goes down on you.
 

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likretsam Oral herpes and genital herpes are 2 different things that DON'T mix. Therefore, let me inform you that 80% of the world's population has oral herpes and you probably have it if you've ever had a cold. No, there is no risk if she goes down on you.
no u can get both from either or if u dont beleive me check this out...http://www.genitalherpes.com/info/about/what/facts.jsp



Although HSV-1 causes the majority of oral herpes cases (cold sores) and HSV-2 causes the majority of genital herpes cases, both of these viruses can cause oral herpes, genital herpes, or both.

Most type 1 genital herpes is caused by unprotected oral sex. In adults, the potential for type 1 genital herpes may be increasing because oral sex is more common and protection is rarely used. Outbreaks of type 1 genital herpes generally recur less frequently than outbreaks of type 2 genital herpes. In the United States, about one third of genital herpes cases are caused by type 1 genital herpes.
 

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I have a more reliable, more popular source and probably with more experienced doctors that says that I'm right... except I can't find it right now :D .
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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likretsam I have a more reliable, more popular source and probably with more experienced doctors that says that I'm right... except I can't find it right now .

lol ok well when u can find them let me know bro ;).
 

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ok but do ny of yall have any experience wit the condoms?
 

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Originally posted by LikRetsam
Oral herpes and genital herpes are 2 different things that DON'T mix. Therefore, let me inform you that 80% of the world's population has oral herpes and you probably have it if you've ever had a cold. No, there is no risk if she goes down on you.
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That is absolutely wrong. That's like saying AIDs can't be spread through oral. All sexually transmitted diseases can be spread through any sexual intercourse including oral, anal, and vaginal. Yes, there are two types of herpes, but it is spread through any skin contact, not where it is. What makes the skin near your genitals any different from the skin near your mouth? Also, 80% of the population does not have oral herpes. Oral herpes can even be spread by sharing drinks, I don't see why you don't think it could be spread through oral sex. If that was true, everyone would be going down on eachother STDs or not since it wouldn't matter.

I don't know how you got your info, but you are definitely wrong on this one. All I can advise is to wear a rubber and check what you're going into.
 
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