"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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STD testing??

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Those of you who are screwing around a lot, where do you go for STD testing?

I haven't been with that many women and I don't consider myself "at risk" for anything, but I was wondering whether that's something you can get done through your primary doctor or whether you need to visit a special clinic. Something about going to a VD clinic, especially if you don't even have anything...just...ewwww.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by squirrels
Haha none of you "players" has ever been tested??
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I think people are trying to figure out, how a person can be 24yo and not know where to go get tested. If this is an honest question, I apologize but seriously dogg get a clue.
 
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std clinic..

if you are having sex, you need to be tested one time a year even if you are not at risk.

if you have multiple partners , you should be tested more often.

if you think you got some bad stuff, go get checked today!@

DUH@#!@!@!@
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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