"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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STD testing??

squirrels

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Those of you who are screwing around a lot, where do you go for STD testing?

I haven't been with that many women and I don't consider myself "at risk" for anything, but I was wondering whether that's something you can get done through your primary doctor or whether you need to visit a special clinic. Something about going to a VD clinic, especially if you don't even have anything...just...ewwww.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by squirrels
Haha none of you "players" has ever been tested??
I think people are trying to figure out, how a person can be 24yo and not know where to go get tested. If this is an honest question, I apologize but seriously dogg get a clue.
 

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std clinic..

if you are having sex, you need to be tested one time a year even if you are not at risk.

if you have multiple partners , you should be tested more often.

if you think you got some bad stuff, go get checked today!@

DUH@#!@!@!@
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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