"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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STD testing??

squirrels

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Those of you who are screwing around a lot, where do you go for STD testing?

I haven't been with that many women and I don't consider myself "at risk" for anything, but I was wondering whether that's something you can get done through your primary doctor or whether you need to visit a special clinic. Something about going to a VD clinic, especially if you don't even have anything...just...ewwww.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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icecreaman

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Originally posted by squirrels
Haha none of you "players" has ever been tested??
I think people are trying to figure out, how a person can be 24yo and not know where to go get tested. If this is an honest question, I apologize but seriously dogg get a clue.
 

penkitten

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std clinic..

if you are having sex, you need to be tested one time a year even if you are not at risk.

if you have multiple partners , you should be tested more often.

if you think you got some bad stuff, go get checked today!@

DUH@#!@!@!@
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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