"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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STD testing??

squirrels

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Those of you who are screwing around a lot, where do you go for STD testing?

I haven't been with that many women and I don't consider myself "at risk" for anything, but I was wondering whether that's something you can get done through your primary doctor or whether you need to visit a special clinic. Something about going to a VD clinic, especially if you don't even have anything...just...ewwww.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by squirrels
Haha none of you "players" has ever been tested??
I think people are trying to figure out, how a person can be 24yo and not know where to go get tested. If this is an honest question, I apologize but seriously dogg get a clue.
 

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std clinic..

if you are having sex, you need to be tested one time a year even if you are not at risk.

if you have multiple partners , you should be tested more often.

if you think you got some bad stuff, go get checked today!@

DUH@#!@!@!@
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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