"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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staying in control?

Swede54

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Well i mended some grudges with a X, it was bothering me. We are talking together again on the internet. The funny thing is, shes lieing to her bf about talking to me, and i find this funny. The only problem is, i have feelings for her. How do i keep myself in control.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You will be in control if you cut off all contact with her. She is in control because she has you chatting with her on your pc, telling you all her problems - emotional tampon
 

Swede54

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Originally posted by FrankWank
You will be in control if you cut off all contact with her. She is in control because she has you chatting with her on your pc, telling you all her problems - emotional tampon
well actually im not Pro-problems. If she talks of problems i jsut get offline or tell her to stop whining.
 

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Originally posted by Swede54
well actually im not Pro-problems. If she talks of problems i jsut get offline or tell her to stop whining.
lay her, then do it again a few times, get her to call u daddy or something along those lines, and sound record it (just for fun)
then when you finally get bored of her, do 1 last lay and call her a dumb ***** as you bust on her face, meet up with her bf, and get into conversation about music, say hey i got something new, see if you like it, then put the best part of her calling you daddy( or somthing along those lines) and let him listen to it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Swede54

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Originally posted by BLUEox117
lay her, then do it again a few times, get her to call u daddy or something along those lines, and sound record it (just for fun)
then when you finally get bored of her, do 1 last lay and call her a dumb ***** as you bust on her face, meet up with her bf, and get into conversation about music, say hey i got something new, see if you like it, then put the best part of her calling you daddy( or somthing along those lines) and let him listen to it.
haha i dont think thats realistic man, need a more sutle plan.
 
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