"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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staying in control?

Swede54

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Well i mended some grudges with a X, it was bothering me. We are talking together again on the internet. The funny thing is, shes lieing to her bf about talking to me, and i find this funny. The only problem is, i have feelings for her. How do i keep myself in control.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You will be in control if you cut off all contact with her. She is in control because she has you chatting with her on your pc, telling you all her problems - emotional tampon
 

Swede54

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Originally posted by FrankWank
You will be in control if you cut off all contact with her. She is in control because she has you chatting with her on your pc, telling you all her problems - emotional tampon
well actually im not Pro-problems. If she talks of problems i jsut get offline or tell her to stop whining.
 

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Originally posted by Swede54
well actually im not Pro-problems. If she talks of problems i jsut get offline or tell her to stop whining.
lay her, then do it again a few times, get her to call u daddy or something along those lines, and sound record it (just for fun)
then when you finally get bored of her, do 1 last lay and call her a dumb ***** as you bust on her face, meet up with her bf, and get into conversation about music, say hey i got something new, see if you like it, then put the best part of her calling you daddy( or somthing along those lines) and let him listen to it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Swede54

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Originally posted by BLUEox117
lay her, then do it again a few times, get her to call u daddy or something along those lines, and sound record it (just for fun)
then when you finally get bored of her, do 1 last lay and call her a dumb ***** as you bust on her face, meet up with her bf, and get into conversation about music, say hey i got something new, see if you like it, then put the best part of her calling you daddy( or somthing along those lines) and let him listen to it.
haha i dont think thats realistic man, need a more sutle plan.
 
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