"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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staying in control?

Swede54

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Well i mended some grudges with a X, it was bothering me. We are talking together again on the internet. The funny thing is, shes lieing to her bf about talking to me, and i find this funny. The only problem is, i have feelings for her. How do i keep myself in control.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You will be in control if you cut off all contact with her. She is in control because she has you chatting with her on your pc, telling you all her problems - emotional tampon
 

Swede54

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Originally posted by FrankWank
You will be in control if you cut off all contact with her. She is in control because she has you chatting with her on your pc, telling you all her problems - emotional tampon
well actually im not Pro-problems. If she talks of problems i jsut get offline or tell her to stop whining.
 

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Originally posted by Swede54
well actually im not Pro-problems. If she talks of problems i jsut get offline or tell her to stop whining.
lay her, then do it again a few times, get her to call u daddy or something along those lines, and sound record it (just for fun)
then when you finally get bored of her, do 1 last lay and call her a dumb ***** as you bust on her face, meet up with her bf, and get into conversation about music, say hey i got something new, see if you like it, then put the best part of her calling you daddy( or somthing along those lines) and let him listen to it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Swede54

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Originally posted by BLUEox117
lay her, then do it again a few times, get her to call u daddy or something along those lines, and sound record it (just for fun)
then when you finally get bored of her, do 1 last lay and call her a dumb ***** as you bust on her face, meet up with her bf, and get into conversation about music, say hey i got something new, see if you like it, then put the best part of her calling you daddy( or somthing along those lines) and let him listen to it.
haha i dont think thats realistic man, need a more sutle plan.
 
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