LOL yeah, it's that old school PUA mythology based on a hash of pseudo-science, anti-science, eckhart tolle woo woo memes, tony robbins' self help rah rah positivity rallying and a huge dose of wishful thinking.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Don’t forget, we have our formulaic terms for principles that are in reality more nuanced.
In my view, IDGAF in practical terms means a low-key, detached, relaxed attitude. Sort of conveying that one is unaffected or unshakable.
In my view, IDGAF in practical terms means a low-key, detached, relaxed attitude. Sort of conveying that one is unaffected or unshakable.
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School’s Out for you my friend. Expelled till further notice....
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This. ^
It’s being ok with who you are and being comfortable in your own skin. It’s a very attractive and engaging vibe.
IDGAF is wishful thinking. It's RSD/PUA codeword for "looks don't matter," which is a total crock. It was RSD's way of scamming guys into believing good game gets you laid with hot girls. With average looking girls, yes, with fatties, yes, with ugly girls yes, with over the hill cougars and milf's yes. And then, not very often.
With hot girls, NO. You need to actually be good looking.
With hot girls, NO. You need to actually be good looking.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Knew that was going to happen...