LOL yeah, it's that old school PUA mythology based on a hash of pseudo-science, anti-science, eckhart tolle woo woo memes, tony robbins' self help rah rah positivity rallying and a huge dose of wishful thinking.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Atom Smasher
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Don’t forget, we have our formulaic terms for principles that are in reality more nuanced.
In my view, IDGAF in practical terms means a low-key, detached, relaxed attitude. Sort of conveying that one is unaffected or unshakable.
In my view, IDGAF in practical terms means a low-key, detached, relaxed attitude. Sort of conveying that one is unaffected or unshakable.
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School’s Out for you my friend. Expelled till further notice....
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This. ^
It’s being ok with who you are and being comfortable in your own skin. It’s a very attractive and engaging vibe.
IDGAF is wishful thinking. It's RSD/PUA codeword for "looks don't matter," which is a total crock. It was RSD's way of scamming guys into believing good game gets you laid with hot girls. With average looking girls, yes, with fatties, yes, with ugly girls yes, with over the hill cougars and milf's yes. And then, not very often.
With hot girls, NO. You need to actually be good looking.
With hot girls, NO. You need to actually be good looking.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Knew that was going to happen...