LOL yeah, it's that old school PUA mythology based on a hash of pseudo-science, anti-science, eckhart tolle woo woo memes, tony robbins' self help rah rah positivity rallying and a huge dose of wishful thinking.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Status is everything in this game
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Don’t forget, we have our formulaic terms for principles that are in reality more nuanced.
In my view, IDGAF in practical terms means a low-key, detached, relaxed attitude. Sort of conveying that one is unaffected or unshakable.
In my view, IDGAF in practical terms means a low-key, detached, relaxed attitude. Sort of conveying that one is unaffected or unshakable.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
School’s Out for you my friend. Expelled till further notice....
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This. ^
It’s being ok with who you are and being comfortable in your own skin. It’s a very attractive and engaging vibe.
IDGAF is wishful thinking. It's RSD/PUA codeword for "looks don't matter," which is a total crock. It was RSD's way of scamming guys into believing good game gets you laid with hot girls. With average looking girls, yes, with fatties, yes, with ugly girls yes, with over the hill cougars and milf's yes. And then, not very often.
With hot girls, NO. You need to actually be good looking.
With hot girls, NO. You need to actually be good looking.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Knew that was going to happen...