"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Starting to date hot woman, don’t want to fck it up, need tips!

Noseekey

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Hey fellas,

A friend of mine and I have sparked up a romantic connection and started hooking up. I’m honestly starting to get heavy feelings for her which is perfectly fine with me since she’s fun to be and not to mention hot as hell (one of the most attractive I’ve been with). I’d also have to say that she has genuine desire to hang and be with me and initiates most hang outs.

Im just looking for some of the top tips and ways to go about things so I don’t fck **** up. Literally anything and everything. Your best ways of going about it.

thanks for your time and advice
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Visionist

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Don't show you really like her or she'll exploit this weakness the way all hot girls learn to do since childhood ("daddy I wanna pony! DADDYYYY!!!")
 

Noseekey

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1. Make the sex good
2. Don't be too available
3. Don't bend to her and place her on a pedestal. Be collaborative with her while holding up your self respect
Sex is incredible
I know putting a woman on a pedestal is the ultimate simp death trap and don’t do it.
I’d say personally being too available would be the hardest to do...We both really enjoy spending time together and she initiates most hang outs. I have to find the willpower to say no to hanging seeing #1 is great even though I’d like to spend everyday with her. Any advice on how to do this?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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3 - 4 times tops, including 1 sleepover and at least 1 afternoon/evening quickie where you "gotta rush girl, no time..."
 

mrgoodstuff

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Hey fellas,

A friend of mine and I have sparked up a romantic connection and started hooking up. I’m honestly starting to get heavy feelings for her which is perfectly fine with me since she’s fun to be and not to mention hot as hell (one of the most attractive I’ve been with). I’d also have to say that she has genuine desire to hang and be with me and initiates most hang outs.

Im just looking for some of the top tips and ways to go about things so I don’t fck **** up. Literally anything and everything. Your best ways of going about it.

thanks for your time and advice
You can't think like that. They are women and human beings. You can't treat them any better than you would anyone else. Respect your boundaries. You have to train yourself not to allow their "look" to make you weak and get you to relax your boundaries. That's why their energy is focused there. Not for you, but ANYBODY.

You have to lose them if it gets fvcked up, because they drag a man down hard and fast.

Have a life you enjoy outside of her, and if you are newly dating it makes sense to spend more time with females who currently like you other than her and date others. It will help you.
 

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I hate to put it so bold but here is the truth.

No matter what, both of you cannot be emotionally in love.

You can love her thru respect. For what she has given you, reasons like how she made your life better. This deep respectful love is what men should offer. The emotional rollercoaster love is for females only.

This because most of the time things go south when you act thru emotions. If you can tame them, go for it. Its not an easy road to take.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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