I am a freshman in college about 3 hours from my old high school. Anyways, this one girl added me as a friend after I graduated and she is a junior in high school and very attractive. We never met in person before but I would like to get some dialogue going between us so when I'm back home over holidays and over the summer we could hang out. I have no other way of contacting her. What do you suggest I message to her to start things off with? Also, don't tell me to not bother or just get college girls. I can do that and at the same time set things up with this girl as well!
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Frank_Tartaglia
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Sending a private message is ok. You could also comment on something she's posted, ei status update, pix, whatever. Just get a conversation going with her.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
ThatMysteriousGuy
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I'm going to anyway. You haven't met her and you have no idea of how old she really is.Energy25 said:
And, I'll continue being a ****, why bother with that unknown possible life-hosing situation when there are plenty of women with a plan surrounding you.
Don't ever say you weren't warned :nono:
ThatMysteriousGuy
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She could be 16 or 20. I'm not trying to harsh your buzz, just bringing that to your attention. I'm sure your intentions are good but that's the most important bit of information you need to 100% nail down before things go farther.Energy25 said:
Really. You HAVE to know she's standard age for a junior.
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actually deleted, just noticed about the age thing. sounds bad bro dont go !
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Be like "OMG! Can't believe i completely forgot about the cutest sophomore from my old high school! You finding me here... Its destiny babyy!"
If you'd prefer use something other than "sophomore" like her race or something. Like the "cutest white girl" or whatever you can come up with based on her.
hope you got good follow up game playa!
If you'd prefer use something other than "sophomore" like her race or something. Like the "cutest white girl" or whatever you can come up with based on her.
hope you got good follow up game playa!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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smells like jailbait
hah glad we're approaching this maturely
i'm in a similar sitch, dude. a girl who's a senior at a hs near mine is becoming one of my plates as we speak (and i go to college about 2 hrs from home)
i laid a better foundation than it sounds like you have... BUT you should just message her being like hey. and then game her. i dont know about you, but since coming to college, i've thought about how much easier hs game was than college. not to mention you've got that "older guy, ooh la la" thing in your favor.
it can be done, with fairly little effort. as i said, this girl's becoming a plate, not a oneitis, and i've only been out with her once. if i get busy with finals and everything, our next date could very well be her high school's winter dance. ha.
i'm in a similar sitch, dude. a girl who's a senior at a hs near mine is becoming one of my plates as we speak (and i go to college about 2 hrs from home)
i laid a better foundation than it sounds like you have... BUT you should just message her being like hey. and then game her. i dont know about you, but since coming to college, i've thought about how much easier hs game was than college. not to mention you've got that "older guy, ooh la la" thing in your favor.
it can be done, with fairly little effort. as i said, this girl's becoming a plate, not a oneitis, and i've only been out with her once. if i get busy with finals and everything, our next date could very well be her high school's winter dance. ha.
yeah man I know exactly what you mean! Just thinking about it, I now realize how easy it would be to get a girl in high school...Now with this girl, I literally don't know her and have never talked to her in person. She probably added me because I was a pretty good runner in high school and everybody knew me as "an amazing runner"...even if it wasn't true, that's what everyone thinks haha...so I guess I'll just message her and see what happens! Why not, I've got nothing to lose! And good luck with your girl man! Sounds fun!(JJ) said:hah glad we're approaching this maturely
i'm in a similar sitch, dude. a girl who's a senior at a hs near mine is becoming one of my plates as we speak (and i go to college about 2 hrs from home)
i laid a better foundation than it sounds like you have... BUT you should just message her being like hey. and then game her. i dont know about you, but since coming to college, i've thought about how much easier hs game was than college. not to mention you've got that "older guy, ooh la la" thing in your favor.
it can be done, with fairly little effort. as i said, this girl's becoming a plate, not a oneitis, and i've only been out with her once. if i get busy with finals and everything, our next date could very well be her high school's winter dance. ha.