"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
starting lines.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
idiot_boyfriend
Senior Don Juan
LMFAO!
idiot_boyfriend
Senior Don Juan
TinyFzzyKiwi
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Hi
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
TinyFzzyKiwi
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"How are you?"
Things are only as complicated as you make them.
idiot_boyfriend
Senior Don Juan
Then you read the Bible....
....but seriously, just keep it simple.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
defiancy
Senior Don Juan
Also if you see her in class or somewhere often then make fun of her..use C&F tech.
Then demonstrate value to her
You need to know what you're doing and you use this site to reinforce it
The bible is your sword and use it
TonyTheTigerOI
Master Don Juan
LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL NICE!!!
I usually dont even say anything... I snap to get her attention, do the "come hither" hand motion, and point @ my dlck with one raised eyebrow. But thats me
LOL... goddamn.
In high school u usually dont need opening lines, especially at high school functions. Girls are too young to have any game, and guys dont have any game either... so none is expected. Just make eyecontact, wave, walk up and say "Hi, Im Anthony - whats up?"
-"Nothin, u?"
"Nothin? Damn, thats kinda boring... <explain what is up with you>"
ALWAYS have a 1 minute monologue about your day, something interesting in your enviornment, or background for a question you have for her.
"Well, its a friday night, im dressed pretty cute - out with teh guys at a <schoolname> dance... and im abooout to have a great time. I know I dont look like it <point to ass> but I can shaaake!"
-<laughin> really?
"No, not exactly. But I def saw you check me out when I mentioned ass shaking - see... I knew it when I saw you - you are a trouble maker!"
Flirt/kino for another minute, grab her and dance. Simple.