"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
starting lines.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
idiot_boyfriend
Senior Don Juan
LMFAO!
idiot_boyfriend
Senior Don Juan
TinyFzzyKiwi
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Hi
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
TinyFzzyKiwi
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"How are you?"
Things are only as complicated as you make them.
idiot_boyfriend
Senior Don Juan
Then you read the Bible....
....but seriously, just keep it simple.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
defiancy
Senior Don Juan
Also if you see her in class or somewhere often then make fun of her..use C&F tech.
Then demonstrate value to her
You need to know what you're doing and you use this site to reinforce it
The bible is your sword and use it
TonyTheTigerOI
Master Don Juan
LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL NICE!!!
I usually dont even say anything... I snap to get her attention, do the "come hither" hand motion, and point @ my dlck with one raised eyebrow. But thats me
LOL... goddamn.
In high school u usually dont need opening lines, especially at high school functions. Girls are too young to have any game, and guys dont have any game either... so none is expected. Just make eyecontact, wave, walk up and say "Hi, Im Anthony - whats up?"
-"Nothin, u?"
"Nothin? Damn, thats kinda boring... <explain what is up with you>"
ALWAYS have a 1 minute monologue about your day, something interesting in your enviornment, or background for a question you have for her.
"Well, its a friday night, im dressed pretty cute - out with teh guys at a <schoolname> dance... and im abooout to have a great time. I know I dont look like it <point to ass> but I can shaaake!"
-<laughin> really?
"No, not exactly. But I def saw you check me out when I mentioned ass shaking - see... I knew it when I saw you - you are a trouble maker!"
Flirt/kino for another minute, grab her and dance. Simple.