"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Starting a boot camp

DJDanny

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Anyone else interested in starting one this week, send me a message.

2 weeks outta a relationship with a LJBF to gf and now back to LBJF. I'd next but she's dangling that V card out there like a ****ing carrot infront of my nose and i can't let my bud beat me to it.

Time to get the game going again.

So if anyone wants to get a bootcamp going with me this week(either tuesday or wednesday) give me a shout and we can get each other through it over the next 8 weeks.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DJDanny

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shes more of a barometer of my progress then her having power over me. I know i will be seeing a fair amount of her in my classes over the next 2 years so if nothing else we probably will remain friends unlike almost every other chick who i haven't talked to since.

still looking for a couple people
 

Mister Big

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Originally posted by DJDanny
shes more of a barometer of my progress then her having power over me. I know i will be seeing a fair amount of her in my classes over the next 2 years so if nothing else we probably will remain friends unlike almost every other chick who i haven't talked to since.

still looking for a couple people
Avoid meaningless sex with a chick that you will see a lot of later down the road. I have the same problem that women don't remain friends after a hook up, so this is even more reason to avoid this at all costs.
An expression that applies to many situations, especially work:

"don't shyte where you eat!"
 
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