"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Starting a boot camp

DJDanny

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Anyone else interested in starting one this week, send me a message.

2 weeks outta a relationship with a LJBF to gf and now back to LBJF. I'd next but she's dangling that V card out there like a ****ing carrot infront of my nose and i can't let my bud beat me to it.

Time to get the game going again.

So if anyone wants to get a bootcamp going with me this week(either tuesday or wednesday) give me a shout and we can get each other through it over the next 8 weeks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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shes more of a barometer of my progress then her having power over me. I know i will be seeing a fair amount of her in my classes over the next 2 years so if nothing else we probably will remain friends unlike almost every other chick who i haven't talked to since.

still looking for a couple people
 

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Originally posted by DJDanny
shes more of a barometer of my progress then her having power over me. I know i will be seeing a fair amount of her in my classes over the next 2 years so if nothing else we probably will remain friends unlike almost every other chick who i haven't talked to since.

still looking for a couple people
Avoid meaningless sex with a chick that you will see a lot of later down the road. I have the same problem that women don't remain friends after a hook up, so this is even more reason to avoid this at all costs.
An expression that applies to many situations, especially work:

"don't shyte where you eat!"
 
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