"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Starting a boot camp

DJDanny

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Anyone else interested in starting one this week, send me a message.

2 weeks outta a relationship with a LJBF to gf and now back to LBJF. I'd next but she's dangling that V card out there like a ****ing carrot infront of my nose and i can't let my bud beat me to it.

Time to get the game going again.

So if anyone wants to get a bootcamp going with me this week(either tuesday or wednesday) give me a shout and we can get each other through it over the next 8 weeks.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJDanny

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shes more of a barometer of my progress then her having power over me. I know i will be seeing a fair amount of her in my classes over the next 2 years so if nothing else we probably will remain friends unlike almost every other chick who i haven't talked to since.

still looking for a couple people
 

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Originally posted by DJDanny
shes more of a barometer of my progress then her having power over me. I know i will be seeing a fair amount of her in my classes over the next 2 years so if nothing else we probably will remain friends unlike almost every other chick who i haven't talked to since.

still looking for a couple people
Avoid meaningless sex with a chick that you will see a lot of later down the road. I have the same problem that women don't remain friends after a hook up, so this is even more reason to avoid this at all costs.
An expression that applies to many situations, especially work:

"don't shyte where you eat!"
 
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