"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Standing up to a fight!

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Right, so tonight (4am now) a mate and I left the club - and casually saw 2 chicks. So we chatted 'em all up and stuff, and after a few good laughs they promised to go back home (1 street away) and get a bottle of Brandy or whatever, to prolongue the nights fun.

So we wait where we met them, after 2 mins we get bored and go wait outside their house for futher distractions, as we were pretty bored. They left the gate open though - a sure sign thatt they, or someone was planning to come out.

Unfortunately for us, after a 10 min wait, it was their brothers.

Now, this mate and I pulled some good teasing, showed good confidence, and thought that these two chicks are really into us. But knowing the town I'm in, their two brothers were just looking for an excuse to come give us sh!t. Naturally, after I was two figgures comming out of the house - one of them with a deep manly voice - i thought it was their father and a brother comming to scare us off. So I played it cool, parked by the fence having my smoke, when they came out I just said we were taking a stroll back from the club. Sadly enough, one of 'em nudged me in the snin with his shoe and threated me with questions of what am I doing 'near' his property. So I just moved aside, brushing of the foot wave and said 'just chillin'. He seemed ONLY to back down after he saw my mate, and knew he was dealing with a badass. So we walked off.

Question is: how should this, uhm, event affect my attitude, what can I learn from it - and should I have turned on those two and smacked 'em silly for threatening me like that? Also, somebody re-assure me the brothers' were just a coincidence. I mean, do chicks really go wake their brothers at 3am and tell 'em that there's 2 guy outside who wanna bang us, so we promised 'em to party a bit with 'em?

:confused:

I know, I know... AFC remark on my behalf. But I must know!

Thanks in advance!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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those chicks played you
 

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Originally posted by Julian
those chicks played you
Something tells me you're right... :(
 

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They're just cavemen looking for attention.

It's not even an alpha male thing here, they're just being childish, acting like 15 yr-olds and looking for a fight. I wouldn't bother with it.

Forget about the two chicks. There's plenty of fish in the sea, and most fish won't go through the trouble of sending out bodyguards after guys chasing them.

-Bill
 

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Originally posted by Bill
They're just cavemen looking for attention.

It's not even an alpha male thing here, they're just being childish, acting like 15 yr-olds and looking for a fight. I wouldn't bother with it.

Forget about the two chicks. There's plenty of fish in the sea, and most fish won't go through the trouble of sending out bodyguards after guys chasing them.

-Bill
so true, you would be so much more the MAN by not fighting but just moving on.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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