"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Standing up to a fight!

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Right, so tonight (4am now) a mate and I left the club - and casually saw 2 chicks. So we chatted 'em all up and stuff, and after a few good laughs they promised to go back home (1 street away) and get a bottle of Brandy or whatever, to prolongue the nights fun.

So we wait where we met them, after 2 mins we get bored and go wait outside their house for futher distractions, as we were pretty bored. They left the gate open though - a sure sign thatt they, or someone was planning to come out.

Unfortunately for us, after a 10 min wait, it was their brothers.

Now, this mate and I pulled some good teasing, showed good confidence, and thought that these two chicks are really into us. But knowing the town I'm in, their two brothers were just looking for an excuse to come give us sh!t. Naturally, after I was two figgures comming out of the house - one of them with a deep manly voice - i thought it was their father and a brother comming to scare us off. So I played it cool, parked by the fence having my smoke, when they came out I just said we were taking a stroll back from the club. Sadly enough, one of 'em nudged me in the snin with his shoe and threated me with questions of what am I doing 'near' his property. So I just moved aside, brushing of the foot wave and said 'just chillin'. He seemed ONLY to back down after he saw my mate, and knew he was dealing with a badass. So we walked off.

Question is: how should this, uhm, event affect my attitude, what can I learn from it - and should I have turned on those two and smacked 'em silly for threatening me like that? Also, somebody re-assure me the brothers' were just a coincidence. I mean, do chicks really go wake their brothers at 3am and tell 'em that there's 2 guy outside who wanna bang us, so we promised 'em to party a bit with 'em?

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I know, I know... AFC remark on my behalf. But I must know!

Thanks in advance!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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those chicks played you
 

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Originally posted by Julian
those chicks played you
Something tells me you're right... :(
 

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They're just cavemen looking for attention.

It's not even an alpha male thing here, they're just being childish, acting like 15 yr-olds and looking for a fight. I wouldn't bother with it.

Forget about the two chicks. There's plenty of fish in the sea, and most fish won't go through the trouble of sending out bodyguards after guys chasing them.

-Bill
 

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Originally posted by Bill
They're just cavemen looking for attention.

It's not even an alpha male thing here, they're just being childish, acting like 15 yr-olds and looking for a fight. I wouldn't bother with it.

Forget about the two chicks. There's plenty of fish in the sea, and most fish won't go through the trouble of sending out bodyguards after guys chasing them.

-Bill
so true, you would be so much more the MAN by not fighting but just moving on.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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