"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Standing up to a fight!

Keeper

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Right, so tonight (4am now) a mate and I left the club - and casually saw 2 chicks. So we chatted 'em all up and stuff, and after a few good laughs they promised to go back home (1 street away) and get a bottle of Brandy or whatever, to prolongue the nights fun.

So we wait where we met them, after 2 mins we get bored and go wait outside their house for futher distractions, as we were pretty bored. They left the gate open though - a sure sign thatt they, or someone was planning to come out.

Unfortunately for us, after a 10 min wait, it was their brothers.

Now, this mate and I pulled some good teasing, showed good confidence, and thought that these two chicks are really into us. But knowing the town I'm in, their two brothers were just looking for an excuse to come give us sh!t. Naturally, after I was two figgures comming out of the house - one of them with a deep manly voice - i thought it was their father and a brother comming to scare us off. So I played it cool, parked by the fence having my smoke, when they came out I just said we were taking a stroll back from the club. Sadly enough, one of 'em nudged me in the snin with his shoe and threated me with questions of what am I doing 'near' his property. So I just moved aside, brushing of the foot wave and said 'just chillin'. He seemed ONLY to back down after he saw my mate, and knew he was dealing with a badass. So we walked off.

Question is: how should this, uhm, event affect my attitude, what can I learn from it - and should I have turned on those two and smacked 'em silly for threatening me like that? Also, somebody re-assure me the brothers' were just a coincidence. I mean, do chicks really go wake their brothers at 3am and tell 'em that there's 2 guy outside who wanna bang us, so we promised 'em to party a bit with 'em?

:confused:

I know, I know... AFC remark on my behalf. But I must know!

Thanks in advance!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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those chicks played you
 

Keeper

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Originally posted by Julian
those chicks played you
Something tells me you're right... :(
 

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They're just cavemen looking for attention.

It's not even an alpha male thing here, they're just being childish, acting like 15 yr-olds and looking for a fight. I wouldn't bother with it.

Forget about the two chicks. There's plenty of fish in the sea, and most fish won't go through the trouble of sending out bodyguards after guys chasing them.

-Bill
 

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Originally posted by Bill
They're just cavemen looking for attention.

It's not even an alpha male thing here, they're just being childish, acting like 15 yr-olds and looking for a fight. I wouldn't bother with it.

Forget about the two chicks. There's plenty of fish in the sea, and most fish won't go through the trouble of sending out bodyguards after guys chasing them.

-Bill
so true, you would be so much more the MAN by not fighting but just moving on.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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