Hmm I dunno, my overhead press has gone up quite a bit over the last month where I didn't go any shoulder presses, but probably not as much as it would've done if I had done shoulder presses. I was doing heavy flat bench.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You're using creatine? How come? What is it like? I've never taken it before.I-tallionStallion said:Yeah...i prob should have done 180. I didn't trust myself with the weight though, being that i haven't done that much in a month or so...i will def do it next week tho. I liked the format a lot...seemed easier heh...i would say i was at about 90% today...feels a little different now that i'm off creatine for the moment...maybe that's just me normal. Next week will tell
What in the smith machine Quag? Its no big deal really, i'll have my usual friend there next week to spot me.
Thank you very much MM...i left dissatisfied tho...i really wanted to use 45 lb plates then 25 haha...guess we will have to see next week.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
No if you knew anything about overhead press you'd realise those are good numbers considering it's end of the workout, first time and did sets of 8 with a bit left in the tank. There's potential there. And I do know about creatine, just never took it. And I'm not a mass monster.Quagmire911 said:Geee MM, I am surprised mass monster doesn't know about creatine.
Stallion, I mean benching in a power rack...
As for the OH press, you weren't feeling 100% so see how you do next week. You did do it at the end I suppose, try it second next week. As for MM saying "very good tbh!", hes being a tool and going against what I say as always.
Yes I'm considering buying some CEE when I start cutting to retain/improve strength whilst I diet down.I-tallionStallion said:Well you may want to look into 'CE' MM, it isn't steriods and its cheap and lasts quite a while. May be worth a purchase.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.