Hmm I dunno, my overhead press has gone up quite a bit over the last month where I didn't go any shoulder presses, but probably not as much as it would've done if I had done shoulder presses. I was doing heavy flat bench.
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You're using creatine? How come? What is it like? I've never taken it before.I-tallionStallion said:Yeah...i prob should have done 180. I didn't trust myself with the weight though, being that i haven't done that much in a month or so...i will def do it next week tho. I liked the format a lot...seemed easier heh...i would say i was at about 90% today...feels a little different now that i'm off creatine for the moment...maybe that's just me normal. Next week will tell
What in the smith machine Quag? Its no big deal really, i'll have my usual friend there next week to spot me.
Thank you very much MM...i left dissatisfied tho...i really wanted to use 45 lb plates then 25 haha...guess we will have to see next week.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
No if you knew anything about overhead press you'd realise those are good numbers considering it's end of the workout, first time and did sets of 8 with a bit left in the tank. There's potential there. And I do know about creatine, just never took it. And I'm not a mass monster.Quagmire911 said:Geee MM, I am surprised mass monster doesn't know about creatine.
Stallion, I mean benching in a power rack...
As for the OH press, you weren't feeling 100% so see how you do next week. You did do it at the end I suppose, try it second next week. As for MM saying "very good tbh!", hes being a tool and going against what I say as always.
Yes I'm considering buying some CEE when I start cutting to retain/improve strength whilst I diet down.I-tallionStallion said:Well you may want to look into 'CE' MM, it isn't steriods and its cheap and lasts quite a while. May be worth a purchase.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.