"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SS Patterns

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Ok, probably posted before, and I know most of you either swear by Speed Seduction or hate it, but in pure interest (as I'm a psycology junkie, and have a knack for the human mind), I was hoping for some basic links to pages on working patterns.

Maybe I'll even learn a couple and adapt them.

Thanks

--iMat
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Lifeforce

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Ouch, never heard of speed seduction ruining someone's life.
 

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They never ruined my life, but they certainly ruined my credibility (and any chance of a date or even friendship) with some women I know.
 

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hmmm...sound correct...

in my sig, the SS BIBLE, link to TONY'S LAY GUIDE there are all the patterns and info in thier.


I also decided to avoid the road of S.S. if I ever want to pull a patern I do it in the form of a poem, that way it's not my words, I'm just repeating someone if they get suspicious, and only with girls who already have a high IL.

Anyway, I'd also recomend pretty much staying away for the most part, but still read up on it cause it is good to know.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I do not intend to use SS for sex. More along the lines of increase IL.

--iMat
 

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SS is not natural, you play with emotions and change to fit a girl by giving her descriptions that fit her. You get NOTHING out of it for yourself except some sex. Think about it, first you chat her up and then you must control her emotions by constantly be aware of what you say, it is mechanical seduction. This is some of the negative effects that Ross Jeffries don't mention with his program. And since SS is wholeheartly focused on the woman I can't think of a more AFC way to lay chicks.

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Why do you want to trick girls like that? It's not the real you and if you ever happen to enter a relationship then what? She'll see right through you.
 

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SS is a KJ theory that will get you laughed at. Hang out with naturals and learn real game, don't bother with this dorky sh!t
 
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