Magma
Senior Don Juan
KARMA!! WE DID IT!!!Purple-Haze said:
When the whole "invasion" occurred, it was always our (those involved) belief that if we opened just ONE mind, then it was worth the effort. Welcome aboard, Captain Stubing.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
SS is what you make of it!
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When the whole "invasion" occurred, it was always our (those involved) belief that if we opened just ONE mind, then it was worth the effort. Welcome aboard, Captain Stubing.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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This is the wondrous spectactle of SoSuave. We place our most intimate and embarassing thoughts and desires on here via our digital facades with the sole hope of recieving resolution and insight.
More often than not, we get it.
It may not be the answer we're expecting but it's a different perspective which is much more valuable in the long term.
I appreciate and have much love for my virtual family, SoSuave.
More often than not, we get it.
It may not be the answer we're expecting but it's a different perspective which is much more valuable in the long term.
I appreciate and have much love for my virtual family, SoSuave.
KarmaSutra
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Yes Sir!Magma said: