"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Purple-Haze said:
KARMA - thanks for coming on over and posting what you did! You helped me open my eyes to very interesting ideas.
KARMA!! WE DID IT!!!

When the whole "invasion" occurred, it was always our (those involved) belief that if we opened just ONE mind, then it was worth the effort. Welcome aboard, Captain Stubing.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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KarmaSutra

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This is the wondrous spectactle of SoSuave. We place our most intimate and embarassing thoughts and desires on here via our digital facades with the sole hope of recieving resolution and insight.

More often than not, we get it.

It may not be the answer we're expecting but it's a different perspective which is much more valuable in the long term.

I appreciate and have much love for my virtual family, SoSuave.
 

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Magma said:
KARMA!! WE DID IT!!!

When the whole "invasion" occurred, it was always our (those involved) belief that if we opened just ONE mind, then it was worth the effort. Welcome aboard, Captain Stubing.
Yes Sir!
 
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