"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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There's a guy on under the name "squirrelz." He hasn't done any real harm, but he's dragging up just about every post I've ever made.

I think you already have someone on top of it cuz a lot of them are locked. Feel free to lock all my old posts if it shuts him up.

Thanks. :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by squirrelz
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hey squirrels, go run up a tree
Dude, go away.
 

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squirrelz how about you be a good little b* tch and go away and never come back.

I stand up for the mods. Ban him please
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I had a guy called "Spike _tha_Cowboy" harassing me a while back. I don't think the mods ever did anything about it, but atleast he got bored and went away after a while.

:cool:
 

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Originally posted by Spike_the_cowboy
I had a guy called "Spike _tha_Cowboy" harassing me a while back. I don't think the mods ever did anything about it, but atleast he got bored and went away after a while.

:cool:
Actually, he got banned.
 

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Cool. Thanks, man. Did you ban him just now or what?:p

Nah, good work.

Cheers!

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