"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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There's a guy on under the name "squirrelz." He hasn't done any real harm, but he's dragging up just about every post I've ever made.

I think you already have someone on top of it cuz a lot of them are locked. Feel free to lock all my old posts if it shuts him up.

Thanks. :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by squirrelz
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hey squirrels, go run up a tree
Dude, go away.
 

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squirrelz how about you be a good little b* tch and go away and never come back.

I stand up for the mods. Ban him please
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I had a guy called "Spike _tha_Cowboy" harassing me a while back. I don't think the mods ever did anything about it, but atleast he got bored and went away after a while.

:cool:
 

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Originally posted by Spike_the_cowboy
I had a guy called "Spike _tha_Cowboy" harassing me a while back. I don't think the mods ever did anything about it, but atleast he got bored and went away after a while.

:cool:
Actually, he got banned.
 

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Cool. Thanks, man. Did you ban him just now or what?:p

Nah, good work.

Cheers!

:cool:
 
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