"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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the_azn_fu

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hi

i think my legs are too strong for my back.

the amount of weight i put on to be able to do a maximum of 10 reps is too much weight for my back, so my lower back gives out before my legs do.
im pretty sure i use perfect form for the squats as well.
any suggestions or tips, or is this normal?

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Skilla_Staz

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I don't really feel squats in my lower back at all.


You should take a video clip of your squat if you can. Thats the only way we can help you with your form.
 

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yes its normal, thats what happened to me...now i'm focusing more on deadlifting, and barbell rows..spend a few months on your back.
 

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for sure u gotta do them in conjunction woth deads.i find squats strengthen my legs more then my back and deads strengthem my lower back for them my legs
 

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I'm pretty sure most people find that...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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dj ben2 said:
for sure u gotta do them in conjunction woth deads.i find squats strengthen my legs more then my back and deads strengthem my lower back for them my legs

Next pudzianowski right here. This guy's got it down.
 

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Start doing Good mornings and other lower back/posterior chain exercises.
 

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WesCottII said:
Next pudzianowski right here. This guy's got it down.

Marius is effin huge. Just thought I'd let everybody know that.:rock:

He's pretty damn lean too.
 

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Apparently he's quite strong too.
 

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Just a tad...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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WesCottII

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Thats 'roids for you. He actually got expelled from the federation in 2001 (I think), for taking them (Ironically, the year he actually lost), but the rest of the "strongmen" basically said that if he was expelled, they might aswell expell all of them as they were on the same stuff, so they let him back in.
 

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roids or not, hes still huge. lol. I'm sure some of the bodybuilders trained like Marius, they'd gain some serious size.
 
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