protienpowder
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To me, it feels like the exact same movement. Is one susposed to work different muscels than the other? Are there any advantages or disadvantages for one of the other?
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
PeterNorthisawesome said:...If you feel that dead and squat is the same your doing IT WRONG. Deadlift mainly work your back, lowerback and arms. Squat works your legs and ass!
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QFT, couldn't have said it betterAdone said:Not necessarily. For the average guy who's not lifting for a lot of time, those 2 exercises work the back and the legs in a very similar way, since they are both underdeveloped and put under stress during the movements.
Again, that is up to each one's physical conformation. I, for example, feel the squats more on the glutes than the quads. Also, when I squat I get an intense workout of the back too, almost as intense as the deadlifts.Skilla_Staz said:Squat, you're pushing the weight up.
Deadlift, you're pulling the weight off the ground.
Sure, they look similar, but when i deadlift, i feel it more in my hamstrings and lower back. When I squat, I feel it more in my quads.
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protienpowder said:I have not been doing alotta deadlifts and squats in the past,
Would you guys reccomend I do both per workout, or alternate between deadlifts and squats between leg workouts.
And what about when I do develope my legs enough so that I see a difference.
It depends on your technique in both lifts. You can do squats leaning forward (good morning squats) which incorporate the lower back alot more than doing regular squats. With regular squats you push with your legs, with squats leaning forward you push alot more with the core (english?).protienpowder said:To me, it feels like the exact same movement. Is one susposed to work different muscels than the other? Are there any advantages or disadvantages for one of the other?
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