spesmilitis
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You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Haha, I can attest to that. I walked in to the gym I used to go to awhile back today, with the intent of getting a new membership there sometime. I went to snoop around first to see if it has everything I'm looking for...To the point, I walk upstairs and I KID YOU NOT, there were ranks/files of treadmills(20+), and about 15 elipticals. The real gym part of it was away in the back of the joint, stuffed into a corner.Originally posted by A-Unit
It's sad that MOST affordable gyms only focus on the stuff that DOES not work. It's most likely a case of profitability and liability, as most gyms wouldn't generate the kind of money to stay open if they had women squating, deadlifting, doing pullups, etc (the core group from now on), that they do with machines and massive rows of cardio equipment.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Ditto, I stoped all isolated bicep work last may, and my biceps grew at the same rate if not more than when I was doing curls. Then, when I started doing weighted pull-ups, my biceps got big real fast.Espi said:The less I bicep train, the more my biceps grow.
Triceps are where it's at, since they supposedly comprise something like 2/3 of total arm mass.
Get a 'dip belt' and attach some weight.for weighted dips/pullups, whered you attatch the weights? i assume they are plates and not dumbells (??)
I reckon when you can do 10 reps, add some weight.also, what is the general time i can proceed to do pullups/dips weighted?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Yeah but surely whther you're using a free bar or the machine you're still forcing your body to do the SAME thing?Throttle said:no, they're talking about free weight squats, not a machine.
no.NickSCFC2000 said:Yeah but surely whther you're using a free bar or the machine you're still forcing your body to do the SAME thing?
and this is just part of the reason why (I don't see how they give you any back support, per se, but they certainly don't require the same degree of stabilization). i suspect it's easier to screw up your back on a machine, because there's a stronger temptation to overdo it.The machines give you a bit of lower back support, the worry of ****ing up my lower back is what's put me off squats before.
there are routines, especially for beginners (i'm thinking of rippetoe), that are built on precisely this principle. but you'd want to pick between either squats 3x a week OR a 20-rep squat once a week.EDit: Also if the big thing about squats is the hormone release, does this mean you should be doing a session of squats with every workout (3 days a week) or just on maybe a shoulders/legs day?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
LOL I seriously doubt whether many of us will reach that stage you're talking about.Ryan69 said:Arnold Schwarzenegger, in the ‘80s Robby Robinson was a favorite and currently Mr. Olympia, Ronnie Coleman,
All those guy are gross. veins and **** sticking it out everywhere..yuck
Girls dont find it attarctive
What a load of crap.insidious said:And besides, who gives a flying phuck what girls think. If I'm bettering myself and reaching small self-inflicted goals regularly, I really don't care if it's a hit on the pvssy circuit.
mrR, thanks for your typically caustic input, but please don't even pretend to presume to understand my private motivations.mrRuckus said:What a load of crap.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.