"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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spreading the DJ gospel via sosuave.com: to spread or not to spread?

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scorpio king

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Hey guys, quick question for you....

Im currently studying in a university where I encounter a lot of hot panty-wearing creatures.lol BUt theres also a lot of AFC's out there. I recommended this site to a close friend who happens to be an AFC.

My question is should I recommend this site to others? Im not selfish but I think about the possibility that too much DJ in a university is certainly bad news.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Most people who are reccomended to this site have a rather low conversion rate. Seems to be one of those things that you have to look for . . . Most of the ideas here blow the minds of the AFCs and they cannot accept it until they are ready for change.
 
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And even then...Of those that DO accept that these ideals might be more effective, probably only 5% actually go out there and take action, and work to become a DJ. so in short, no you don't have to be worried about showing others this site. Most wont' take any action anyway.
 
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conversion is slim. the cult here is small. and actaull djs here might just be as little as 100. the more you spread the word the worse the conversion rate.

numbers should be reduced allowing the actaul DJs some valid number of poeple to work on. too many AFC's and the works become impossible.

keep a tight lip for now.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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To answer the question, I don't think it matters at all how many guys know about the site. Very few guys are willing to see that they need to improve themselves first, much less make the committed effort. The worst that could happen is some of you canned routine guys will have to get some new material.

My conversion is slow. I'm doing the best I can to get my life to where I want it to be, and women just aren't the top priority for me right now. I'd like to think that I will get to the same level as the top dogs, as I'm a very intelligent guy. We'll see.

I haven't been here for long by any means, but it seems like in the limited time I have been here it's getting worse and worse. There's less field reports, interesting stories, and good questions than there are WBAFC's coming in with their first post being about how to get the girl of their dreams back. It's not that I fault them for pleading for the answer, but they come here with the idea that this site is going to make them good with women and/or get their dream girl back, and don't even bother to do the most basic research.
 
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