"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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spreading the DJ gospel via sosuave.com: to spread or not to spread?

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scorpio king

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Hey guys, quick question for you....

Im currently studying in a university where I encounter a lot of hot panty-wearing creatures.lol BUt theres also a lot of AFC's out there. I recommended this site to a close friend who happens to be an AFC.

My question is should I recommend this site to others? Im not selfish but I think about the possibility that too much DJ in a university is certainly bad news.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Most people who are reccomended to this site have a rather low conversion rate. Seems to be one of those things that you have to look for . . . Most of the ideas here blow the minds of the AFCs and they cannot accept it until they are ready for change.
 
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And even then...Of those that DO accept that these ideals might be more effective, probably only 5% actually go out there and take action, and work to become a DJ. so in short, no you don't have to be worried about showing others this site. Most wont' take any action anyway.
 
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conversion is slim. the cult here is small. and actaull djs here might just be as little as 100. the more you spread the word the worse the conversion rate.

numbers should be reduced allowing the actaul DJs some valid number of poeple to work on. too many AFC's and the works become impossible.

keep a tight lip for now.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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To answer the question, I don't think it matters at all how many guys know about the site. Very few guys are willing to see that they need to improve themselves first, much less make the committed effort. The worst that could happen is some of you canned routine guys will have to get some new material.

My conversion is slow. I'm doing the best I can to get my life to where I want it to be, and women just aren't the top priority for me right now. I'd like to think that I will get to the same level as the top dogs, as I'm a very intelligent guy. We'll see.

I haven't been here for long by any means, but it seems like in the limited time I have been here it's getting worse and worse. There's less field reports, interesting stories, and good questions than there are WBAFC's coming in with their first post being about how to get the girl of their dreams back. It's not that I fault them for pleading for the answer, but they come here with the idea that this site is going to make them good with women and/or get their dream girl back, and don't even bother to do the most basic research.
 
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