"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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spreading the DJ gospel via sosuave.com: to spread or not to spread?

scorpio king

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Hey guys, quick question for you....

Im currently studying in a university where I encounter a lot of hot panty-wearing creatures.lol BUt theres also a lot of AFC's out there. I recommended this site to a close friend who happens to be an AFC.

My question is should I recommend this site to others? Im not selfish but I think about the possibility that too much DJ in a university is certainly bad news.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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fender85

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Most people who are reccomended to this site have a rather low conversion rate. Seems to be one of those things that you have to look for . . . Most of the ideas here blow the minds of the AFCs and they cannot accept it until they are ready for change.
 

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And even then...Of those that DO accept that these ideals might be more effective, probably only 5% actually go out there and take action, and work to become a DJ. so in short, no you don't have to be worried about showing others this site. Most wont' take any action anyway.
 

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conversion is slim. the cult here is small. and actaull djs here might just be as little as 100. the more you spread the word the worse the conversion rate.

numbers should be reduced allowing the actaul DJs some valid number of poeple to work on. too many AFC's and the works become impossible.

keep a tight lip for now.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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To answer the question, I don't think it matters at all how many guys know about the site. Very few guys are willing to see that they need to improve themselves first, much less make the committed effort. The worst that could happen is some of you canned routine guys will have to get some new material.

My conversion is slow. I'm doing the best I can to get my life to where I want it to be, and women just aren't the top priority for me right now. I'd like to think that I will get to the same level as the top dogs, as I'm a very intelligent guy. We'll see.

I haven't been here for long by any means, but it seems like in the limited time I have been here it's getting worse and worse. There's less field reports, interesting stories, and good questions than there are WBAFC's coming in with their first post being about how to get the girl of their dreams back. It's not that I fault them for pleading for the answer, but they come here with the idea that this site is going to make them good with women and/or get their dream girl back, and don't even bother to do the most basic research.
 
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