Split the Check?

[coolguy676767]

I know that if its the First date or an informal lunch with a girl that you should normally not pay for it.

So do you guys ask the waitress for seperate checks, or do you just get 1 check and if its say $30, you put down 17 for your half and tip, and let her figure out the rest. Whats the proper way to assert you dont owe her **** without coming off as a jerk or obnoxious.

 

[[]D [] []V[] []D]

some girls think your a cheapskape if you dont pay for it all...

 

[coolguy676767]

Well I know I should pay for my own half, but many DJ's on here say that if its the first date or 2 or a lunch, that you should only pay for your half, and let her pay for herself. I wanted to know how to do that without being rude and saying pay up.

 

[DJinT]

Don't be an idiot. You ask her out, you pay the bill.

It's as simple as that.

 

[johnmich]

Originally posted by DJinT
Don't be an idiot. You ask her out, you pay the bill.

It's as simple as that.

If i went out with someone- who asked me if i wanted to go out, i know i would feel awkward letting them pay. Surely girls must think something similar.

i suppose it depends on what you did and the total price.

 

[SamePendo]

Before you order, you "ask" her if it's ok if you split the bill.

"Ask" = Politely assume.

I don't know where you live, but women here are used to YOU paying, if YOU invited.

If she says no, well, you say damn, I can only afford some drinks only then, and quickly change subject, or... well... start conversation on any given topic. Don't apologize for not spending diamonds on a ***** who could be crazy as a goat.