"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Split the Check?

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coolguy676767

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I know that if its the First date or an informal lunch with a girl that you should normally not pay for it.

So do you guys ask the waitress for seperate checks, or do you just get 1 check and if its say $30, you put down 17 for your half and tip, and let her figure out the rest. Whats the proper way to assert you dont owe her **** without coming off as a jerk or obnoxious.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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some girls think your a cheapskape if you dont pay for it all...
 
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Well I know I should pay for my own half, but many DJ's on here say that if its the first date or 2 or a lunch, that you should only pay for your half, and let her pay for herself. I wanted to know how to do that without being rude and saying pay up.
 
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Don't be an idiot. You ask her out, you pay the bill.

It's as simple as that.
 
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Originally posted by DJinT
Don't be an idiot. You ask her out, you pay the bill.

It's as simple as that.
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If i went out with someone- who asked me if i wanted to go out, i know i would feel awkward letting them pay. Surely girls must think something similar.

i suppose it depends on what you did and the total price.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Before you order, you "ask" her if it's ok if you split the bill.

"Ask" = Politely assume.

I don't know where you live, but women here are used to YOU paying, if YOU invited.

If she says no, well, you say damn, I can only afford some drinks only then, and quickly change subject, or... well... start conversation on any given topic. Don't apologize for not spending diamonds on a ***** who could be crazy as a goat.
 
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