"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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coolguy676767

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I know that if its the First date or an informal lunch with a girl that you should normally not pay for it.

So do you guys ask the waitress for seperate checks, or do you just get 1 check and if its say $30, you put down 17 for your half and tip, and let her figure out the rest. Whats the proper way to assert you dont owe her **** without coming off as a jerk or obnoxious.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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some girls think your a cheapskape if you dont pay for it all...
 
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Well I know I should pay for my own half, but many DJ's on here say that if its the first date or 2 or a lunch, that you should only pay for your half, and let her pay for herself. I wanted to know how to do that without being rude and saying pay up.
 
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Don't be an idiot. You ask her out, you pay the bill.

It's as simple as that.
 
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Originally posted by DJinT
Don't be an idiot. You ask her out, you pay the bill.

It's as simple as that.
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If i went out with someone- who asked me if i wanted to go out, i know i would feel awkward letting them pay. Surely girls must think something similar.

i suppose it depends on what you did and the total price.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Before you order, you "ask" her if it's ok if you split the bill.

"Ask" = Politely assume.

I don't know where you live, but women here are used to YOU paying, if YOU invited.

If she says no, well, you say damn, I can only afford some drinks only then, and quickly change subject, or... well... start conversation on any given topic. Don't apologize for not spending diamonds on a ***** who could be crazy as a goat.
 
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