"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Spinning plates

jimjam

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Gentlemen,

What's the most plates you've spun at one time? How do you keep track of them?

I had two going and i found myself confusing what i told one with what i told the other, conversations blending together, etc. I can see this erupting into a grand fiasco.

Any advice is appreciated.

Thanks
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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mangotot

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Most I have ever spun at any time is 1. I am to change that to 1 per day starting this week.
 

Wraithe

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I haven't spun too many plates for any length of time, but one idea that comes to my mind is having a journal or using your phone to make a few notes after each date. Take some time to categorize your notes under each girl and review your notes before each date in the future. I plan on doing something along these lines when I get there.
 

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I think since i am just starting the most is 3 and than 2 fell off and i stoped to get away from Oneits
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Zarky

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Depending on definition of "plate," I'd have to say right now. I currently have 3 going and have since almost a year ago.

Unfortunately I'm getting kind of sick of it. I spend 4-5 nights a week with these chicks and the other 2-3 I'm working late. I really don't have any nights to myself.

This year I've not had sex with any new girls whereas I banged a dozen new ones last year. It's largely because chicks want to go out on the weekends and my weekends are always full. I never have a free Friday, Saturday or Sunday. Never.

I'm not sure what to do. I really like my MLTRs but damn I wish one of them lived far away and was a twice-a-month girl. I think two nearby girls and one far-away girl is best for me. Three girls nearby just becomes a chore because I like new puzzy every once in awhile and I haven't had any in nearly a year.

I take that back, I smoked meth with an ex a few weeks ago and banged her, but we last banged in 2012 so I wouldn't consider that "new."

Having said all that, I've been doing MLTRs continually since 2003 (with a short break in 2005 where I dated only one chick and realized it wasn't for me) and I'm completely comfortable with them. I can't imagine what it would be like to only date one chick.
 
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